tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post9059701517362146413..comments2009-08-21T16:58:48.349+01:00Samhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12796175279935659886noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-74785831228974028452009-08-21T16:58:48.349+01:002009-08-21T16:58:48.349+01:00Christ, who hasn&#39;t felt this at at least some point in their lives. Horrible, horrible, horible.<br /><br />having said that, after years of yearning and being dicked about, I have a woman I love and want to be with, so it does happen, even to the lamest men out there.<br /><br />How to get rid of that woman from your brain though. Fuck knows. Hang in there I suppose.Terryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09746778996045636969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-23557476822670774722009-06-24T22:20:17.985+01:002009-06-24T22:20:17.985+01:00I really didn&#39;t think blokes went through this too....<br /><br />But yeah, it sucks, I&#39;m sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-40237811070060223542009-06-18T03:02:22.533+01:002009-06-18T03:02:22.533+01:00Oh God...<br /><br />This has happened to me too, right recently, and I&#39;d rather take on a gang of skinheads with samurai swords than get this feeling inside. Curse facebook, utterly...<br /><br />Thanks for posting it, I did wonder whether, as a bloke, I&#39;m meant to just go and get drunk, pull someone and laugh it off, and was feeling a bit of a wimp for literally wanting to throw up at work recently when an image of her and matey boy flashed up in my cranium. I really didn&#39;t need her &#39;special comment&#39;, which resembled one she emailed me years ago, either...<br /><br />Anyway, I&#39;m off to read some book on how to succeed with women by ignoring their calls and being incredibly flash.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-32403630179882136872009-06-14T08:39:09.279+01:002009-06-14T08:39:09.279+01:00It is really nice to read the genuine comments made here. :)<br /><br />My ex The One, was the one. I accepted that and then reallised I had to change. Had to find my own inner balance. Reunit myself with myself. Nolonger did I have another half, instead I am on a journey to be come myself again. <br /><br />It is working. I now realise my ex was the The One, but that having found and reconnected with myself that I have grown beyond where I was and now the ex The ONE is not the ONE. She missed the opportunity to grow with me and Now she is just a person who helped me learn.<br /><br />Sometime we learn more through pain and using the opportunity creativily and with love even, to grow. My the One is now not my The Only One. I have changed and I realise that I desire more.<br /><br />I have gone from gut renching hollowness and feelings of total lose to happiness that I am not putting all that is good about me through a relationship where I am not valued. The Real One will find me. First we all have to find ourselves. <br /><br />Good Luck. Do it with creativity and love. Transformation, rebirth what ever you wish to call it happens. Love the fact you had the joy of feeling like you found the one, and love the opportunity to find and be found by the real one.:)<br /><br />All the negative stuff is just fear. And well that will cause more hurt and damage than an ex . <br /><br />Love and light to one and all. XBlueDragonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-69877655263128722982009-06-13T15:55:46.785+01:002009-06-13T15:55:46.785+01:00For an editor, I edited that appallingly. My apologies!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-23783113005589739092009-06-13T15:54:10.543+01:002009-06-13T15:54:10.543+01:00Look at it this way. I went through a brutal divorce about 8 years back, that included my then 6year old son.<br /><br />My bitch of an ex-wife left London, where I used to live, to shack up with some geezer, and took my son with them and refused any contact. A that point I had no fight left in me to carry on.<br /><br />Then, after a few months, I met, a wonderful Texan lady and I decided to make the jump and live here in Austin, TX.<br /><br />I made the right decision it turns out. I have a wonderful wife, a house, a fantastic hound called Clyde and I edit for a large online company and play drums to supplement that editing gig.<br /><br />What I&#39;m saying here, rather long-windedly I admit, is that things do get better. I know it&#39;s a terrible cliche, but it true. By your writings, you are a funny and talented guy. You&#39;ll be back out in the world in no time. <br /><br />Plus, whether you&#39;re feeling a bit, or ultra-depressed, lay off the booze. It gets dangerous. I know that all too well.<br /><br />I wish you well and the very best to you!<br /><br />Rob<br />Austin, TX, USA.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-89700220485555071612009-06-12T13:17:34.374+01:002009-06-12T13:17:34.374+01:00God help him.Nottingham's 'Mr Sex'http://www.blogger.com/profile/09769299051936139851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-31222194927028284052009-06-12T13:11:48.720+01:002009-06-12T13:11:48.720+01:00I may have got married - but he&#39;s nowhere near as good in bed as you.Your Exnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-17936162395325502622009-06-12T13:03:40.575+01:002009-06-12T13:03:40.575+01:00The great thing about spotting the &#39;love of your life&#39;s&#39; wedding photos on the internet is that you can&#39;t hide in your carefully constructed tragicloveworld anymore - at least that&#39;s how it was for me. Now I rejoice in the fact that someone else is stuck with him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-90121742146746422762009-06-11T05:49:11.957+01:002009-06-11T05:49:11.957+01:00Lovely post -- good luck coming out of the depressiony fug. And belated thanks for the &quot;how to get over a friend&quot; post that is currently getting me through a rough patch.Nenehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11616757335118872929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-79813553453680999682009-06-09T21:59:57.725+01:002009-06-09T21:59:57.725+01:00This is a bomb I&#39;m waiting to fall in my own life. The ex talks all the time in the online forums we&#39;re both on about his girlfriend. I haven&#39;t asked him if she is Chinese -- see, he left me after his mother threatened to disown him if he married me, because I&#39;m not.<br /><br />When he gets married things are going to be fuckin&#39; UGLY here. And if I find out she&#39;s not Chinese I don&#39;t know what I&#39;m going to do.Julietnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-45944162018246433172009-06-08T16:47:38.108+01:002009-06-08T16:47:38.108+01:00aw i&#39;m sorry mr. sex.<br /><br />*big hugs*<br /><br />a similar thing happened to me recently and while i definitely felt numb it also reminded me that breaking up with him was the right thing to do, so hang in there man. xCanuckian's Evil Twinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14293423805990079258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-78660405520325436542009-06-04T20:19:47.357+01:002009-06-04T20:19:47.357+01:00Me too.<br /><br />Thanks to one and all for your kind words. I suppose I&#39;ll be returning to this subject at some point, but as for now, I&#39;m slowly starting to emerge from the depressiony fug.Nottingham's 'Mr Sex'http://www.blogger.com/profile/09769299051936139851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-24288739778318485482009-06-04T19:08:53.805+01:002009-06-04T19:08:53.805+01:00I hope that is a (shit) joke Jared.Milanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06073672978868480732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-76053678326865949862009-06-04T17:08:54.489+01:002009-06-04T17:08:54.489+01:00Ah mate. Sorry to hear about your sorrow. I now understand more about why you&#39;ve been so grouchy recently.<br /><br />The prostitutes are on me this weekend. : )Jaredhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14996921634825593422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-72115121256855311622009-06-03T13:20:06.287+01:002009-06-03T13:20:06.287+01:00Just wait until the little evil reminders show up to torture you! Still, 10 years after My &quot;One&quot; gave me the heave ho I come across her Beeper code numbers with a ridiculous regularity! This random four digit number that pops up to slap me across the face and yell &quot;LOSER!!! HAHAHA!&quot; and then retreats to wait for the next time he can jump out from behind my normal and happy tedium to mock me...Mine got married too, and yes, when she has kids you&#39;ll be all fuckered up again.DC Smackmasternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-57452055768003472052009-06-03T12:25:14.152+01:002009-06-03T12:25:14.152+01:00&quot;Maybe you&#39;ll marry, maybe you won&#39;t. Maybe you&#39;ll have children, maybe you won&#39;t. Maybe you&#39;ll divorce at 40, maybe you&#39;ll dance the Funky Chicken at your twenty-fifth wedding anniversary. The race is long, and we won&#39;t know what&#39;s at the end of it until we get there.&quot;<br /><br />--Baz LuhrmannInnocent Loverboyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16564876728079783376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-90068108812372585142009-06-03T09:56:38.495+01:002009-06-03T09:56:38.495+01:00Guess what! There is more than one One. It&#39;s true, it really is. Don&#39;t fret. (There, there.) And hey - you guys broke up, eh? That&#39;s because you weren&#39;t right for each other. How EXCITING that in your future you will find a One who IS right for you!!<br /><br />xxAJKnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-56102816754285886662009-06-03T00:57:00.727+01:002009-06-03T00:57:00.727+01:00Oh poor you. I hope you found writing this post carthartic...<br /><br />Hugs xxLost girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06259575269402330544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-54513013432077592582009-06-02T22:57:29.620+01:002009-06-02T22:57:29.620+01:00Awww, I love reading your posts, they're so honest. <br /><br />Big hugs.<br /><br />xMiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03821919529060633294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-16514472804534285712009-06-02T22:40:19.625+01:002009-06-02T22:40:19.625+01:00I guess this explains why you're single :-/Krissnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-60109476166794712132009-06-02T22:26:16.004+01:002009-06-02T22:26:16.004+01:00Do you mind much if I behave like an ass and complain that of the four Youtube videos you posted, three of them aren't f*cking available in my country? Well, someone had to tell that.<br /><br />Anyway, I can't tell you anything you haven't told yourself yet, so just read the text aloud to yourself and get drunk next. Preferably with someone with whom you can whine all night.<br /><br />:)Pedronoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-34487341002084344582009-06-02T21:53:03.821+01:002009-06-02T21:53:03.821+01:00I wholeheartedly agree with Anna and Simon above!<br /><br />Personally I always try to believe in 'the next one'!<br /><br />Good luck!Julesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-14062979978665654572009-06-02T21:43:17.188+01:002009-06-02T21:43:17.188+01:00Ah, poor Al. Sending you a psychic hug.Lyrichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16244229887807218506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-74973576695549561402009-06-02T21:14:31.729+01:002009-06-02T21:14:31.729+01:00seriously, my deepest commiserations. coming from someone who is still desperately latching on to "the one" as desperately <I>wrong</I> as it seems to be, i can talk.<br /><br />one word: therapy<br /><br />(i am only half-joking)tarahttp://tarainlondon.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com