tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post5308414232656504956..comments2024-03-25T09:34:50.580+00:00Comments on Todger Talk: Dave: on the pull aloneSamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12796175279935659886noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-57771357307341784452011-05-12T18:41:17.585+01:002011-05-12T18:41:17.585+01:00sorry but in my case there's no one romantic f...sorry but in my case there's no one romantic film that can capture my attention, is just that is to false, all the history is a total fake, why this people don't show love as are in the reality.Buy Cialishttp://www.learnsexualhealth.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-64180861586236964222008-02-29T07:43:00.000+00:002008-02-29T07:43:00.000+00:00I have been single for two years now, and I think ...I have been single for two years now, and I think it is mostly because it is hard to meet someone. I work at home, and I'm not a party person. My friends say I won't met anyone at home, but I say al the people I wnat to met are probably at home too.Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315282514541118552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-50080281789309275802008-02-29T00:46:00.000+00:002008-02-29T00:46:00.000+00:00One hint: join a dance class. Works at least where...One hint: join a dance class. Works at least where I live (dark, cold, girls are desperate to find a dance partner) - there are always more girls than guys who'd like to participate. Even if you don't find your one and only there, a good dancing skill can go a long way.<BR/><BR/>BTW, in my girly opinion there is nothing wrong with old and colourless clothes, as long as they are reasonably clean.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-45745911617524622562008-02-28T17:19:00.000+00:002008-02-28T17:19:00.000+00:00There is a Spanish saying that comes to my mind no...There is a Spanish saying that comes to my mind now: "Hunger gives bad advice" -meaning that people who are very needy are likely to do desperate and foolish things.<BR/>This could be applied to sex, too. A sex-starved man will often behave in a way that actually makes it hard for him to engage in any relationship. My advice to someone in such a situation would be "Don't let it show!". Watch your body language, try to look relaxed, don't ogle women's breasts, don't talk about sex. In a word, don't give people the impression that you are desperate for sex. If you look desperate (Sam dealt brilliantly with this in his post about "desperitis") people will assume that you are in such a condition because you lack social skills, because there is something wrong with you -and that won't help you at all.<BR/>Don't have unreasonable expectations but don't hook up with the first person who notices you (unless you like her, of course). Don't be afraid of waiting. It is possible to do without food and without sex longer than most of us believe. In the meantime, try the time-honoured tips to make yourself more attractive (or less unattractive): adopt healthier eating habits -which will help you lose some weight-, go to a gym, get a *normal* haircut (that means what is normal now, not what was normal 20 years ago) and wash your hair as often as necessary, get *normal* clothes (that doesn't mean latest fashion clothes in which you would look funny, it means jeans that fit plus something else that doesn't look old or colourless), have a shower at least once a day, look after your teeth (use dental floss, visit your dentist periodically), use a mouthwasher (not the classic one, which burns like napalm -something milder). And be optimistic. There has to be someone who finds you interesting and who you find interesting too.<BR/>And if there is no one, what the hell, celibacy has plenty of good things too... :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-36269492101748986752008-02-28T13:58:00.000+00:002008-02-28T13:58:00.000+00:00I really haven't been to too many pubs where condi...I really haven't been to too many pubs where conditions would be conducive to reading a book. Usually, dim lighting and a crowded bar would mean that you'd have to read with your nose an inch from the page.<BR/><BR/>I think you might be better off at hobby classes or weekend activity placec. Sure, it means dragging your ass out of bed on a Saturday morning to go watch an obscure Italian movie, but at least, you're assured of a topic to talk about and hardly anyone suspects your motives since it's still daylight outside!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-43040666100958061252008-02-28T11:11:00.000+00:002008-02-28T11:11:00.000+00:00Badgerdaddy, most excellent! Girls love a book, an...Badgerdaddy, most excellent! Girls love a book, and for the laydeez, I'm more than happy to go into a pub alone with some reading matter and talk literature...and then some more. Anywhere that doesn't have music that rattles your earwax is good for all this.Clairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01914896847679973163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-84076973812225786332008-02-28T10:31:00.000+00:002008-02-28T10:31:00.000+00:00The way is to not go out with pulling on your mind...The way is to <I>not</I> go out with pulling on your mind, even if you're alone.<BR/><BR/>I'm a sad bastard who sits at a bar or in a pub with a book, because I fancy a few drinks and don't necessarily want any company. It's the perfect fuck-off - but it's also the perfect means to instigating conversation from strangers. You then either make it a fuck off or an invite.<BR/><BR/>It's particularly inviting to women, it seems - very, very often when I'm reading in a pub, I get totty-like lay-dees coming over and ordering drinks next to me - as one does - then chatting away happily. I think it must take away some perceived threat or something, like I'm not there to pick up chicks, and I can read, so I'm probably not that bad, or something.<BR/><BR/>Also, being quite confident helps - most blokes apparently feel to self conscious (or think it's too fucking sad) to read in a pub, alone, to go and do it. Personally, I love it, and I've got the bollocks of a mountain lion. They're boiling up now, for soup.<BR/><BR/>Fucking hell, those are my tits on the floor! I must have bored my own tits off while writing this...badgerdaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08275758525851693777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-65809274542357695742008-02-28T10:29:00.000+00:002008-02-28T10:29:00.000+00:00Ah, in the end of the day it's all about what you ...Ah, in the end of the day it's all about what you want. If you want a bit of a fling or whatever then clubs are usually the best way of going about. However, if you're talking about seriously meeting someone, then alas this usually can't be rushed, and instead happen by nature.<BR/><BR/>However, it's possible to encourage this to happen; It's all about meeting new people. So, go out with friends-of-friends, and you'll get lots of "o and this is Jessica..." type things. You'll find a spark eventually. Work's another good one. I met my now ex-girlfriend of 3 years when I was working behind a bar.Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17701149222441418342noreply@blogger.com