tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post5212343435417744109..comments2024-03-25T09:34:50.580+00:00Comments on Todger Talk: Danonymous Dan: The Little ThingsSamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12796175279935659886noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-38067059832606607582009-01-16T08:28:00.000+00:002009-01-16T08:28:00.000+00:00First time reading through your blog...nice!My guy...First time reading through your blog...nice!<BR/><BR/>My guy is moving here in 6 weeks. We've been at this LDR for 7 months and it truly sucks...I feel your pain.Some Chilean Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06238851746037566411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-91278776632763155762009-01-16T03:14:00.000+00:002009-01-16T03:14:00.000+00:00My sympathies, mate. Long distance relationships ...My sympathies, mate. Long distance relationships do suck very badly. You are quite right about all those tiny little interactions... I have lost count of the times my other half and I have tried to recreate them over the phone. I won't ask how long you guys still have to be apart, but I hope for your sake that it's not too long...Smarty Bumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06563282652834226939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-17348192272273526982009-01-09T15:20:00.000+00:002009-01-09T15:20:00.000+00:00Do you have any plans for one of your to move to b...Do you have any plans for one of your to move to be together? <BR/><BR/>I can understand long distance relationships and why people conduct them, only not when there are no plans to eventually be together. In that situation, I do question the logic behind the LDR.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-24435981846083057702009-01-09T10:53:00.000+00:002009-01-09T10:53:00.000+00:00My now-husband and I were LDR for what felt like s...My now-husband and I were LDR for what felt like several centuries: even after we got married, we had nearly six months with him in the US and me in Australia.<BR/><BR/>The little things, god, yes; all those little things that every couple takes for granted, that left me green with envy...<BR/><BR/>But, on the up-side, when we finally found ourselves living in, bliss, the same house...those little things became so much more appreciated. Even today, four years after he moved her, we still treasure doing the little things. I sometimes feel that, in the long run, we have it better now than some couples who didn't have the long-distance thing, because we <I>know</I> what it's like to be apart, we've learned to treasure everything. Even doing the washing up together, or the housecleaning. Because we're finally <I>together</I>.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-72605042744109872862009-01-08T20:26:00.000+00:002009-01-08T20:26:00.000+00:00Our LDR is 4 years and counting. Hoping to move so...Our LDR is 4 years and counting. Hoping to move soonish, but money is still too tight atm. <BR/>In a way its good- we havent had chance to break up over anything trivial. If we do argue we make up again before we part. The downside is not being able to hold hands, or watching other couple squabble over insignificant things. <BR/>And we tend to eat far too much when we are together. Its like catching up on a months worth of meals in 4 days:/<BR/>Glad your time together went well :)<BR/>Hope your happiness continues and that it works out for you both in the long run.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-82728772052784397272009-01-08T14:48:00.000+00:002009-01-08T14:48:00.000+00:00The only time myself and my lovely wife really arg...The only time myself and my lovely wife really argue is when I'm travelling with work, and we talk on the phone. It's very strange. But then, so much of communication is non-verbal.badgerdaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08275758525851693777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-53260332365888830492009-01-08T14:07:00.000+00:002009-01-08T14:07:00.000+00:00This is s lovely, honest post Dan. Being female an...This is s lovely, honest post Dan. Being female and just out of a long distance relationship (he lives here now!) it was refreshing to hear a blokes point of view. I used to imagine the male side of the LDR just fell back into the footie, pint and tv routine.<BR/><BR/>I found that we talked a lot on the phone/skype etc quite easily about things in the beginning that we perhaps wouldn't have face to face.<BR/><BR/>All turns out good though.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11471201017296213462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-21873748919155174272009-01-08T12:14:00.000+00:002009-01-08T12:14:00.000+00:00It's strange how, in a long-distance relationship,...It's strange how, in a long-distance relationship, problems crop up that could be solved by a face-to-face conversation, or a hug. If you can't have those tings, the problems are much harder to deal with.<BR/><BR/>I was in a long distance relationship for a year, and it was very hard sometimes. How long have you been with your lady?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16911606744887152262noreply@blogger.com