tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post5110254688087982289..comments2024-03-25T09:34:50.580+00:00Comments on Todger Talk: Something For The Ladies, #19Samhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12796175279935659886noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-81457088443677486502008-07-26T08:56:00.000+01:002008-07-26T08:56:00.000+01:00If you're really to shy to tell him outright, you ...If you're really to shy to tell him outright, you could always try the reverse-approach. Now this is tricky; he is a man and men are notoriously bad at subtleties..<BR/><BR/>Tell him how much you'd like him to be honest to you about sex and to have him tell you if there is anything you could do better in bed. If luck is on your side he'll ask you if there is anything that he could do better too. And then it is your turn to nicely and positively tell him how he could be better at giving you oral.<BR/><BR/>Be prepared for him to give you some advice too, though. But in the end, hinting this way worked for me a couple of times.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-15769845056600556852008-07-25T22:50:00.000+01:002008-07-25T22:50:00.000+01:00Good advice all round. I really like Rob's fidgeti...Good advice all round. I really like Rob's fidgeting idea.<BR/><BR/>Mr Sex mentioned two reasons why men go south. I'd add a third, namely that for some, it is huge turn-on. Once I'm down there, I can't drag myself away. It helps, of course, that my partner demonstrates her pleasure; it would be less of a turn-on if she was doing her nails while I'm merrily munching away.CTVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06775874319624381020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-30778044861546720722008-07-25T21:21:00.000+01:002008-07-25T21:21:00.000+01:00i have to agree with what has been said so far, i ...i have to agree with what has been said so far, i personally have entered into a new relationship and as such i have already asked my girlfriend if there was anything i could do better. if she wanted anything from me i'd want her to talk to me about it because i want to make her happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-91821235599204699822008-07-25T17:07:00.000+01:002008-07-25T17:07:00.000+01:00Tell the truth but in a nice way. Constructive cri...Tell the truth but in a nice way. Constructive criticism is the best way. People can and do improve their oral sex skills greatly over the course of a relationship, but not without feedback. Alternatively, if you positively don't want him to go down on you, end the sentence with "... but here's something else that you could do to really get me off".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-23482408403724048052008-07-25T15:07:00.000+01:002008-07-25T15:07:00.000+01:00Sam and Mr Sex are as always, bang on right.Yes, i...Sam and Mr Sex are as always, bang on right.<BR/><BR/>Yes, it will be pretty hard for him to hear (it would be for me), and the "my ex did..." is a DEFINATE NO NO. But its important you let him know, I would much rather lay my pride on the line and get things right than continue making myself look like a bit of a twat (in your eyes).<BR/><BR/>If you dont want to blurt it out right away, try doing it subtly. Fidgit a bit till he is where you want him (or close to it) then let out a "oh fuck yeah right there" (or whatever your "is good" cue is), do this a few times and he'll start to get his bearings a lot quicker..<BR/><BR/>As with anything.. Practice makes perfect!<BR/><BR/>Good luck!Rob Cooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04578932741770127659noreply@blogger.com