tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post1396942911242997404..comments2024-03-25T09:34:50.580+00:00Comments on Todger Talk: Something For The Ladies #5Samhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12796175279935659886noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-3018285847954223652008-03-20T18:36:00.000+00:002008-03-20T18:36:00.000+00:00How is his diet? His spunk may stink, hence the ne...How is his diet? His spunk may stink, hence the need to keep it under wraps...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-7262641818263781852008-03-15T08:27:00.000+00:002008-03-15T08:27:00.000+00:00If he's finishing himself, it knocks out the idea ...If he's finishing himself, it knocks out the idea of him not wanting to get you pregnant and/ or having an STD. If he was simply pulling out just as he's cumming, they'd be viable options.<BR/><BR/>It sounds as if he's either insensitive to your needs (is a wanker) or isn't able to cum with you, as some of the others have said.<BR/><BR/>I'd suggest trying out different positions, as well as talking to him about it. Who knows, maybe he thinks it's what he's supposed to do.<BR/><BR/>If he's just in it for himself (so to speak) break it off. His behavior in the bedroom is a peak into his mind and how he'll end up treating you outside of it.Ismaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02236408766288806587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-41459419898783040722008-03-14T23:31:00.000+00:002008-03-14T23:31:00.000+00:00Iain: there's a term for the condition - "Situatio...Iain: there's a term for the condition - "Situational anejaculation" or less flatteringly "Ejaculatory incompetence". Google it. <BR/><BR/>It's linked to stress and anxiety - very much the same mechanisms that cause women to have trouble orgasming. <BR/><BR/>Monkey - absolutely right, different people come easily from different things. It's a loose test, nothing concrete. The STI issue is another good thought. <BR/><BR/>Anonymous - masturbation has nothing to do with sex? Erm, OK, glad I'm not fucking you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-15375772118375669642008-03-14T22:39:00.000+00:002008-03-14T22:39:00.000+00:00Therose's post was interesting. It's not something...Therose's post was interesting. It's not something I discuss with mates a lot ("So, who can't come...") but it sounds a little unlikely.<BR/><BR/>I'd say it's the posh wank thing as a likelihood but talk about it - too many problems occur because couples can't talk about these things.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18212603950742271295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-73848777598764206692008-03-14T15:22:00.000+00:002008-03-14T15:22:00.000+00:00i agree with therose, i think you have to be quite...i agree with therose, i think you have to be quite sensitive about this the boy obviously has some sort of issue with throwing in a mix.<BR/>however i do dissagree about the blowjob thing i find it difficult to cum from a blowjob but have no problems from sex. <BR/>also maybe you should ask the boy about STIs and getting a check maybe this problem is because he scared of giving you or recieveing something.<BR/>how long have you been together are you both faithful?monkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16644778661884002884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-11361212784648196062008-03-14T11:59:00.000+00:002008-03-14T11:59:00.000+00:00OK, mythbusting time. You know how some women can'...OK, mythbusting time. <BR/><BR/>You know how some women can't cum from sex, and need to finish themselves off by hand? There's a lot of literature on how men should be cool with that (rightly so). <BR/><BR/>Well, like many sexual oddities, it's equal-opportunity. <BR/><BR/>Some men just have a hard time coming from sex, believe it or not. It feels great, they love it, but whether because they're too anxious about pleasing their partner or just aren't that sensitive down there, they have trouble coming except by masturbation. Which, by the way, can be a huge worry, can make them really anxious about giving their girlfriend/wife/casual shag/sheep the impression they're not enjoying it, blah. <BR/><BR/>Of course, he could also just want to come on your tits. <BR/><BR/>Quick way to tell - does he cum easily and reliably from a blowjob? If he doesn't, then it's quite likely he just can't easily cum from sex either. If he does, then it may be Option B, and you should be thinking about how to keep it out of your eyes...<BR/><BR/>But don't automatically assume he's a wanker. That's not a nice thing to do, and if he genuinely does have trouble with orgasm, it could fuck him up quite a bit. Imagine every time you had sex thinking "Oh, shit, I'd better cum or s/he's going to dump me!" <BR/><BR/>Honest conversation time, methinks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7448867658264499706.post-72320271541263294852008-03-14T10:30:00.000+00:002008-03-14T10:30:00.000+00:00That's really bizarre? In my experience cumming fr...That's really bizarre? In my experience cumming from sex is <I>fantastic</I>, particularly when a woman knows what bits to tense at the point of no return. <BR/><BR/>I can understand pulling out and shooting ala porn (nothing better than a good facial!), but finishing off in the condom is BIZARRE, unless he's uber para about pregnancy.<BR/><BR/>In th'end of the day, if you've gotten close enough to let the guy put his cock in you, it shouldn't be too difficult to ask (most likely post coetally), what the fuck he's doing. But subtler I'd imagine. <BR/><BR/>Make sure to let us know!Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17701149222441418342noreply@blogger.com